This type of thinking really got me down, what if they don’t like me ,what if the car breaks, what if I make them angry, what if I look foolish, what if I have a heart attack, what if I lose my job, the list goes on and on. Most of the time, what ever we are afraid of never happens. I learned an interesting trick to kind of reverse the negative aspect of this way of thinking. If you turn this to what if positive thinking, it can help. Think rather what if it all works out, what if I look foolish and I grow from it, what if I get a better job or a raise, what if that project I have been working on makes me money. This way of thinking has helped me out over and over again